Sunday, November 28, 2010
Just a post from the love one..
Bonjour' ;)
Wonderful meal by Dearest Mummy tonight, another splendid meal' ;) Thank you very much Mummy' ;)
Recently, someone I knew had a little quarrel with the partner, and it seems for a period of days, things wasn't going too smooth, and a time break is occurring. Or should I say, I guess it's just a time break for them, not permanent.
I remember bout something that night that someone commented on the other party being "sissy" enough to break what have happen between them to the people around them. And that, angers her.
No comments on whose on the fault or righteous here, I never wish to comment on these' ;)
As such, I was mentioning bout this to her actually.
"If you feel he's sissy, was it because of just this incident, or you knew all along or just realized that on the whole, he's a sissy? Do you say that out of anger?
You said your eyes are wrongly stamped. "Pa Stamp" Do you really feel so?
Truthfully, if that's really the case, do you ever think what attracted him to you in the first place? Or like what you say, your eyes are really stamped?"
On a whole, Doreen never judges on if two person are compatible to be together, nor about who they are. I don't give judgement bout if it's worth continuing, nor do I gets both parties to break apart. My field, as much as possible, just like what I mentioned to friends, pals, love ones bout things in life, are just thoughts you might wish to consider truthfully by yourself, and no one else.
I cannot judge if your partner is someone worthwhile to be with, likewise I cannot judge if he's being "sissy" and immature in handling this issue. Probably I've my own views, but I never guess that is right for me to bring my personal feelings and thoughts down for you, anyone in any topic, to be considering, as I always believe, they're not your most honest opinions, if you listen to another.
Probably, one thing I would really wish and hope for all partners to consider, are the non usage of vulgarities. Not only for the above, but for a few others I've heard recently, or always that's been ongoing.
In one relationship of mine, I once blurted out the F. word and sadly, there's been the feedbacks of the same word and more before.
I guess, for that relationship, if Doreen never once started on this vulgarities, it might be handle in a much more appropriate manner during those quarrels.
Thus on my side, I had my wrong moves taken definitely, and I've learnt that from then on, I never uses them ever again, not even to anyone in my life.
A lot of chapters opens up and closes very abruptly during my early twenty years. I'm twenty one now by the way, so it's a brand new journey up to another twenty years. I've given thoughts and always known that many things started actually in my life back then, without much thorough thoughts on them too, but a lot on emotions and then feelings.
Probably why so, that after all these years, I took things a lot much slower, that I gave thorough thoughts, even to temptations, to moves, to routes I would have chosen, before embarking on them sincerely.
Sometimes, of course, I too get face upon with the moment of "I don't know if this is right" but, I always more than definitely, takes myself back and reflect back in the near future always to determine and hope to steer myself to the routes and path I am bless with by trying not to make any mistakes as much as possible.
By Lord's Grace, there've been changes that are great and beautiful moments because of my life taken one whole step further back to see things clearly, listen to them nicely and hearing, feeling them from the bottom of my heart, my soul and my mind.
Be it love, work, life, surrounding, the reckless approach to do and approach in whichever manners and thoughts I had at the moment of impulse are greatly taken afar and aback for myself right now.
One weakness still, a little better, was the tendency of being too soft each time anyone around me breaks down privately. Everything in caution were easily jumbled up. But I'm glad, Life have thought me to be caution, and that even with the soft heart, my mind notify me that Hey, don't jumble up whatever are still there always.
People changes, and that there're people I've taken a much cautioning of, and truthfully for them, I've already given up any hope of sincerity left in them. Now, it's just like, they're being, a little better in a circle of another, just that Doreen never cares bout whatever would be happening anymore in whichever issues that would be surfacing in the near future, in the future.
Thrashing bag, punching bag, I Am not. Sometimes, it's either I pull away completely, or more than often, I never put on any trust and sincerity in you, this person any longer ever again.
This is life, I realized, from a point of view for a group of social I was a little involve in. I never likes that social group or circle actually, I never likes that. In another view, there've been thoughts for me to move out completely from that world.
Yup back to the love issues someone had above' ;)
*Think about YOYOB. You Own Your Own Behaviour. This is taught by a discipline master in my senior days, and this is something worth having upon in one's life. What have happened, been happening, that will happen, ought to have involvement of your own behaviour*
In Love, being Partners in Life, one, both have to have great amount of Patience, Love, Sincerity and a lot others to forward your journey Together.
Many a times, we tends to focus on what's happening at that moment that sparks us, to forget about why were we there at that moment, what causes it, are we both to blame. Definitely, both are, to sparks it. Never one hand to spark up the fire, just like, it's never one hand to spark up the romance' ;)
Another hand could hold you up when your pillar is gone, but could that hand be always be by your side for a lifetime?
There's a reason why he is by your side at that moment in life. There is a reason why he is your husband/partner in life.
HE, fulfill what you've been missing, HE, taught you what Love and Learning bout Giving and Sharing are about. YOU, gave him what no one ever could. YOU, shown him the way to love.
WE, builds a home TOGETHER. With Love, Faith and Sincerity.
One hand can never hits a nail down to the plank. You knew it. You could carry the plank, but you could never hold the nail in place, and hits it at the same time' ;)
*It's never about ME, Myself and I. It's never about YOU, and ME. It's about US.. TOGETHERNESS' ;)*
GoodNight' ;)
Wonderful meal by Dearest Mummy tonight, another splendid meal' ;) Thank you very much Mummy' ;)
Recently, someone I knew had a little quarrel with the partner, and it seems for a period of days, things wasn't going too smooth, and a time break is occurring. Or should I say, I guess it's just a time break for them, not permanent.
I remember bout something that night that someone commented on the other party being "sissy" enough to break what have happen between them to the people around them. And that, angers her.
No comments on whose on the fault or righteous here, I never wish to comment on these' ;)
As such, I was mentioning bout this to her actually.
"If you feel he's sissy, was it because of just this incident, or you knew all along or just realized that on the whole, he's a sissy? Do you say that out of anger?
You said your eyes are wrongly stamped. "Pa Stamp" Do you really feel so?
Truthfully, if that's really the case, do you ever think what attracted him to you in the first place? Or like what you say, your eyes are really stamped?"
On a whole, Doreen never judges on if two person are compatible to be together, nor about who they are. I don't give judgement bout if it's worth continuing, nor do I gets both parties to break apart. My field, as much as possible, just like what I mentioned to friends, pals, love ones bout things in life, are just thoughts you might wish to consider truthfully by yourself, and no one else.
I cannot judge if your partner is someone worthwhile to be with, likewise I cannot judge if he's being "sissy" and immature in handling this issue. Probably I've my own views, but I never guess that is right for me to bring my personal feelings and thoughts down for you, anyone in any topic, to be considering, as I always believe, they're not your most honest opinions, if you listen to another.
Probably, one thing I would really wish and hope for all partners to consider, are the non usage of vulgarities. Not only for the above, but for a few others I've heard recently, or always that's been ongoing.
In one relationship of mine, I once blurted out the F. word and sadly, there's been the feedbacks of the same word and more before.
I guess, for that relationship, if Doreen never once started on this vulgarities, it might be handle in a much more appropriate manner during those quarrels.
Thus on my side, I had my wrong moves taken definitely, and I've learnt that from then on, I never uses them ever again, not even to anyone in my life.
A lot of chapters opens up and closes very abruptly during my early twenty years. I'm twenty one now by the way, so it's a brand new journey up to another twenty years. I've given thoughts and always known that many things started actually in my life back then, without much thorough thoughts on them too, but a lot on emotions and then feelings.
Probably why so, that after all these years, I took things a lot much slower, that I gave thorough thoughts, even to temptations, to moves, to routes I would have chosen, before embarking on them sincerely.
Sometimes, of course, I too get face upon with the moment of "I don't know if this is right" but, I always more than definitely, takes myself back and reflect back in the near future always to determine and hope to steer myself to the routes and path I am bless with by trying not to make any mistakes as much as possible.
By Lord's Grace, there've been changes that are great and beautiful moments because of my life taken one whole step further back to see things clearly, listen to them nicely and hearing, feeling them from the bottom of my heart, my soul and my mind.
Be it love, work, life, surrounding, the reckless approach to do and approach in whichever manners and thoughts I had at the moment of impulse are greatly taken afar and aback for myself right now.
One weakness still, a little better, was the tendency of being too soft each time anyone around me breaks down privately. Everything in caution were easily jumbled up. But I'm glad, Life have thought me to be caution, and that even with the soft heart, my mind notify me that Hey, don't jumble up whatever are still there always.
People changes, and that there're people I've taken a much cautioning of, and truthfully for them, I've already given up any hope of sincerity left in them. Now, it's just like, they're being, a little better in a circle of another, just that Doreen never cares bout whatever would be happening anymore in whichever issues that would be surfacing in the near future, in the future.
Thrashing bag, punching bag, I Am not. Sometimes, it's either I pull away completely, or more than often, I never put on any trust and sincerity in you, this person any longer ever again.
This is life, I realized, from a point of view for a group of social I was a little involve in. I never likes that social group or circle actually, I never likes that. In another view, there've been thoughts for me to move out completely from that world.
Yup back to the love issues someone had above' ;)
*Think about YOYOB. You Own Your Own Behaviour. This is taught by a discipline master in my senior days, and this is something worth having upon in one's life. What have happened, been happening, that will happen, ought to have involvement of your own behaviour*
In Love, being Partners in Life, one, both have to have great amount of Patience, Love, Sincerity and a lot others to forward your journey Together.
Many a times, we tends to focus on what's happening at that moment that sparks us, to forget about why were we there at that moment, what causes it, are we both to blame. Definitely, both are, to sparks it. Never one hand to spark up the fire, just like, it's never one hand to spark up the romance' ;)
Another hand could hold you up when your pillar is gone, but could that hand be always be by your side for a lifetime?
There's a reason why he is by your side at that moment in life. There is a reason why he is your husband/partner in life.
HE, fulfill what you've been missing, HE, taught you what Love and Learning bout Giving and Sharing are about. YOU, gave him what no one ever could. YOU, shown him the way to love.
WE, builds a home TOGETHER. With Love, Faith and Sincerity.
One hand can never hits a nail down to the plank. You knew it. You could carry the plank, but you could never hold the nail in place, and hits it at the same time' ;)
*It's never about ME, Myself and I. It's never about YOU, and ME. It's about US.. TOGETHERNESS' ;)*
GoodNight' ;)
Saturday, November 27, 2010
MORE PHOTOS TO COME!~~ hehex
Some are just old photos that I've decided to upload as a batch, and there are even more older photos to come..
I dun feel well.. :(
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